Friday, May 20, 2016

the one with Toris first year of preschool

Yesterday my sweet girl had her last day of her first year of preschool.

Starting Tori at preschool at age 2 was something I battled with in the beginning. MOST people start their child at 3 (if at all)... but there was my Tori, two years old and needing something more. So much more. Thankfully, we found that at Calvary Preschool. 

I should start with saying yes this was preschool, but lets be real- her classmates were two and three years old. It was as structured as you could expect for that age range. Starting the morning off with some play time, a couple minutes dedicated to a story.. some outdoor play... a craft.. prayer and snacktime. It was 2.5 hours, two days a week and seemed to fly by. 

There were ten students in Tori's class (including her) and two teachers. I loved that ratio. It seemed as though all of the kids got one on one attention and that was just enough hands to help the kids during crafts etc. 

Toris main teacher, Ms. Brennan is a gem. So sweet. And seriously LOVES her kiddos. I have never in this past year thought one time that Tori wasnt on her top priorities list. And the woman is a saint, teaching preschool kids has got to be so hard. Sometimes I lose my mind trying to do a craft with Tori and Izzy let alone add 8 more kids to that. If she was stressed out, she never showed it. She also has a really sweet and calming voice. Very approachable. 

The assistant teacher, Mrs. Davies, also- adorable. She is an older lady and always wearing a dress. Just seemed like a little grandma. She was the one who if Tori would get in trouble at home and put in time out, she would cry for Mrs. Davies. It was the sweetest. During story time, Tori and Jakin (one of her classmates) would usually have to sit with Mrs. Davies (they were two of the youngest in the class) for a little extra guidance and reminders to stay focused. Tori would sit there and I would peek in the window of the classroom and see her play with Mrs. Davies ID tag and see how sweetly Mrs. Davies would try to redirect her attention. 

It was also really fun seeing Tori develop friendships. She espeically loved this group of girls in her class, "The 3 M's".. Mia, Molly and Maddy. They would play together so sweetly and Tori especially gravitated towards Mia which I think was because she always had on the best dresses and she always brought the coolest toys from home into class and shared with Tori. I was one of three moms who had a second baby while Tori was in her preschool year which was also a fun and cute bond to see Tori make with the other kids. They liked telling each other about their baby brothers/sisters. Whenever I would pick up Tori from school, her and the other girls would YELL "BYEEEEEE" to each other. Over and over again. The entire time they could see each other while walking out to the car.

This year, Tori has learned: her ABC.s (and can recognize about a third of them), how to count to 15 (the last 5 can get messy), colors, how to put on her coat, how to put on her bookbag, how to walk in a line and follow a person in front of her, shapes, she is coloring in the lines more often. I know a lot of this is developmental that she would have learned at home too but I think for sure she learned even better in class. I am not a teacher after all. I also really liked that she learned about how she needs to listen to authority/other adults when Mom and Dad are not around and she got the chance to practice patience and taking turns. 

Overall, our year at Calvary was great. The only reason we will not be sending Tori there again next year is because the church by our house had an opening for their program next year so we will be sending Tori there. It will be so much more convenient. We do wish we could take Tori's teachers along with us on the move. I highly recommend this school to anyone looking for somewhere to send their child!

And as an end of the year gift, her teachers made us this little book including some pictures from Toris year :)








Friday, May 13, 2016

the one where I am turning 29

In just one month I will be entering the last year of my 20's. CRAZY. I have days where I still feel like I am 21. Its like I blinked and the past 8 years have flashed before my eyes. I guess that isn't so insane considering everything that has changed in my life over the last 8 years.
Just doing a little reflecting on life this past decade and WOW how much I have grown. Don't get me wrong, I still have my days where I feel like my insecure 17 year old self is taking over.. but for the most part.. I am at such a good place. Life is where I always dreamed it would be at this age. My wonderful husband, my beautiful babies, a career I love, living outside of York and really just doin' the damn thing (ok sorry my 17 year old self came back for a sec haha). I wonder what I did to really deserve to be where I am right now.. and then when I look back, I realize I really earned it. The past decade wasn't necessarily easy. There was so much growing. So much maturing. Bad times. Confusing times. Finding myself times. But it all led me to here. I am living proof that what is meant to be will be and fate does exist.
Some of the highlights of my 20's:
-Meeting Dan. Corny, I know... but I always think about how we met and how I persued him and every which direction our love went and it truly only gets better over time.
-Turning 21 (duh). Judge all you want but my gosh this made me happy. Bars. Social drinks. Dinner drinks. I loved every second of that night that lasted about an hour.
-Living with Bertha. We had so, so, so much fun! And I am SO happy I got the experience of living with girlfriends before I just moved out of my parents house and right into my married house. The nights staying up watching tv, dance parties, picnics in our living room, we shared everything. I am so grateful for those memories.
-Getting Married and our Honeymoon. We need another week at an all inclusive. There is no one I can travel with besides Dan where we can have so much fun just the two of us.
-Finding my 'thing' with work. Real estate has been so amazing. Even with the ups and downs of when you are busy or slow season.. the stress that comes along with finding your next lead, not getting paid until settlements, etc.. I will take this job for as long as it will keep me :)
-The friends I have made since Lancaster. Other than 2-3 people I have stayed close with from York, most of my friends are from my adult life. It is amazing how much a friendship truly means when these are the people you go through the TRUE trials and tribulations of life with. So grateful for my squad.
-My nieces. They mean the world to me. It has been really fun seeing them grow and watching how my brother and sister have evolved as parents.
-Going to Italy. I lived there as a child and even though Italian was my first language I lost most of it. I can understand better than I can speak. Getting to see my family over there and see how they live, and them get to meet Dan.. it was a really amazing experience.
-Victoria Luna and Ava Estelle. They are two things that remind me there really is a higher power. I was trusted to raise these girls, girls who will one day grow up to be women who can change the world. Mark my words. These girls are truly going to do something in their lives. Something I probably cant even imagine right now.
-Buying our house in Lancaster. I love this city so much. I love our home.

I am going to make year 29 the one where I let loose, get rid of some stress and anxiety and really just appreciate life in the moment.

Where I am is exactly where I am supposed to be. <3


 
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